Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!
I confess the reason for my greater struggle than most people when first learning how to improve my life with women and dating and hardly progressing was because I standing on empty air without the very foundation of social dynamics. None of the stuffs ever talk about the fundamental, the core of everything…your innate social skills that set it off and build everything else.
I wasn’t just awful with the ladies but my poor social skills made me horrible at interacting with people in general.
The notion that we all grew up learning how to socialize with people is unfortunate, and that lack of social skills transition over to making us terrible with women, so trying to pickup women without this prerequisite foundation is like learning how to run before walking.
It was not until I started to get and get this bigger picture was then things began to fall into place finally.
Dating, attraction, seduction, pickup skills all fall within your social skills. Pickup skills is just only a small chunk of your social skills.
If you have exceptional social skills, picking up women will naturally follow.
I would so much as break it down even more and say that the way I see it, is that are various classified sets of your accumulated social skills. As example, there are social skills for when you are around with your guy friends, interacting with your colleagues, and meeting the ladies.
There are guys who are inseparable with their buddies who are always hanging out and playing Madden and enjoying Sunday night football and whenever, and overall, always bonding like good-ole-pals when they hang out, but are terrible with women.
Then there are the corporate overachievers that seem to have every fancy cool things in their lives, people respect them at work, they’re constantly nailing every partners professionally (no pun intended) making that sale, and always getting promoted and bonuses, and without doubts, have everything going for them in their professional relationships, but they have no clue when pertaining to managing their personal relationships outside of the work.
And then there are guys who are exceptional at interacting up chicks, but they are akward with their family, colleague, and co-workers, and don’t have any close friends because being the one-dimensional pickup artist is the only sole reality they see themselves to do whatever it takes to get the girl.
Being really good in one area oppose with each other because the social skill sets are exclusively different. You don’t ever want to be successful in one area of your social life but fail at the other. Maintaining a delicated balance in your life is extremely vital.
Don’t just be the shallow pickup artist and alienate other aspects of your social life because that will never get you the most out of your social life.
Focus on knowing the set of your social skills to use at the particular right time.
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your “social skills” to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women…but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
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