How to Tell Married Affairs and What to Do With Them
People who are having adulterous affairs with their neighbors, co-officemates or friends while being married is referred to as married affairs. This is a hotly debated topic and trying to resolve it will usually end up with a big fight. Such affairs usually start from “innocent flirtations” towards a member of the opposite sex.
Your spouse continues to believe that as long as there are no sexual activities between the two of them, then it’s safe to tell it isn’t one of those married affairs. This “friendly relationship” goes on and on, and there you are coiling in pain. You think it’s unreasonable, and you’re damn right!
If you felt that your partner is cheating, betraying or doing adulterous acts, then so be it. Infidelity is defined as the breach of trust or expectations between two people sworn to love each other.
Again, your spouse might not to know that this “friendly relationship” is putting you in a very unpleasant situation. Be honest with your feelings about this friendship with other people. A good partner will understand and respect your feelings.
While it’s difficult to tell between what’s right and wrong and to what extent it’s safe to accuse your spouse of having married affairs, we’ve come up with a few but the most far-famed behaviors that the majority of married couples would consider inappropriate.
? Many people think that it’s inappropriate for their spouses to spend so much time towards a member of the opposite sex.
? No matter how funny, thrilling or absurd the topics are, it’s considered a big no-no to discuss matters that are sexual in nature.
? It’s wrong to give gifts or presents to the opposite sex unless of course, if they are relatives and in special occasions.
? Involve in sexual encounters.
? It’s wrong to spend countless of hours chatting with a member of the opposite sex.
? Sharing of personal information, feelings and plans with someone who’s not even his wife or husband.
The points mentioned above maybe acceptable to you or not. Different couples see them differently. Some couples find it okay to have sex with other couples while some don’t. That brings us to the other side of infidelity, which means that your spouse had not lived up with your expectations that’s why you felt betrayed or cheated.
Although most couples know about cheating and betrayal but still prefer not to discuss these issues with each other. They know it’s unacceptable but don’t know where to draw the line to be considered as a cheater.
Apparently, the only solution we could think of is to discuss the terms on what separates the acceptable from the unacceptable behavior with regard to married affairs to any member of the opposite sex.
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