5 Ways To Get Started On How To Talk Dirty To Your Partner
Dirty talk is one of the easiest and hottest ways to spice up your love life. Women often want to experiment with dirty talk in the bedroom to turn on their husbands, boyfriends, and partners. Often the hardest part is just getting started.
Get started with the tips below.
1. Start with “narrative” dirty talk:
If you’re not sure how to get started or what to say, start with the easiest kind of dirty talk: narration. Basically, with narrative dirty talk, you’re using one of four things as the basis of what you’re saying:
• What you’re doing
• What you’re about to do
• What’s being done to you
• How it feels
2. Sexy answers:
Does your partner ever ask you questions? “Does this feel good?” “Do you like that?” “More?” One easy way to be more vocal in the bedroom is just to respond to those questions. “Yes!” and “Oh please!” and “So good!” are great places to start. Keep it short, positive, and genuine.
3. Sexy questions:
Dirty talk is way better than if it’s a conversation. Another way to get started is to ask your partner some questions. Examples might be “Do you like that?” “Is that what you want?” and “What do you want me to do now?”
4. Experiment with sounds:
A big part of dirty talk is giving your partner positive reinforcement. Another way to do this verbally is to experiment with sounds – think sighs, moans, purrs, and heavy breathing.
5. Take a cue from what they already enjoy:
Does your partner love doing it doggy style? Maybe they love to have their ears nibbled? Or do they get turned on more than anything by a sexy massage? Describing those activities or incorporating keywords that will help evoke their signature turn-ons is a great way to target dirty talk to your specific audience for maximum effect.
About The Author:
How To Talk Dirty Blog site is for women who want to learn how to talk dirty to their husbands, boyfriends, or partners. We tackle women’s concerns about dirty talk, look at examples of dirty talk and Sex SMS, dig down into what men really want on this topic, and recommend resources for further exploration.
Our goals here at How to Talk Dirty are simple: to empower women to take charge of their relationships; build their confidence to be awesome in and out of the bedroom; and to make these issues discussable without judgment. It hasn’t been easy. But it’s totally worth it.
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