Life to “three times married just perfect
Marriage is three levels:
The first heavy state: and a the person that oneself love to get married.
The second state: and a the person that oneself love and his (her) used to get married.
The third heavy state: and a the person that oneself love and he (she) habit, and he (she) background get married.
In the first heavy boundary the husband and wife, marriage relatively stable. In the second level of husband and wife, marriage relatively stable. In the third heavy boundary the husband and wife, seldom see have a divorce.
In this world, some a long life, life basically all three times and marriage.
For the first time in the hotel, and in your friends and relatives congratulations and blessings, and a the person that oneself love to get married.
The second is in the home, two people together through a few years, each other and each other’s habits to get married.
The third time in the family. And the other side of all kinds of family get married. The second and third marriage than with the first, is very different. No grand wedding, also have no relatives and friends came to congratulate, only the presence of is both parties the tacit understanding. The real marriage, often occurs in the last two times. Now many people get married two or three years they divorced, if analyse carefully, you will find: the reason is not his own marriage from the first state to push the second state. As we all know, boiling water can kill bacteria.
Madly in love and boiling water, also can kill the shortcomings and the insufficiency. Those in love perfect white horse prince and the bird she girl, into marriage this cup not temperature is not after fire, shortcomings and inadequacies will like bacteria is back. Then you must be entered into the marriage of the second state, and he (he) used to get married, acceptance and tolerance he (she) shortcomings and the insufficiency. Otherwise, marriage could because of a shallow roots and atrophy. Those who was very for a pair of love, and a few years later inexplicably divorced.
Ten to one is refused to enter the second state results. In the second state after marriage, few the divorce in noises, psychologically, they have to accept each other character the insufficiency, some even put each other’s this shortage into his own a concern. The marriage is sweet and sweet, presents the biggest characteristic is tolerance and complementary. However, the warmth of marriage does not represent the marriage of the firm.
A strong marriage need three times the sublimation, that is all kinds of family married with each other. That is, take you to him (she) of one’s love desert to show he (she) parents and relatives and friends. And in this love, marriage in a wisdom understanding: the other half of you not only belong to you, he (she) also belong to him (her) parents and friends, and even to belong to his (her). Marriage once in this state, also then into the state of meditation, want to separate are very difficult.
In love in the world, many men are often misunderstood marriage is to marry a woman, and neglected to take over their own pursuit of the woman, and a woman of the background behind. Many women misunderstand marriage is to marry a man, and don’t know will marry the man’s habits and character, as well as the man behind the family.
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