Tulsa Lawyer – How To Know It Is Time To Let Go Of The Marriage
One of the hardest parts about filing for divorce is having to accept the reality that your marraige has failed. A lot of people who are locked into a failed marriage are unwilling or for whatever reason are unable to be honest with themselves about the failed status of their marriage. Those same people make the mistake of holding on to their failed marriage for far to long. Ultimately when this happens, the spouses end up suffering for long periods of time in a very dysfunctional relationship.
If you are reading this article then chances are high that you are either thinking about divorce, about to file for divorce, or are already going through a divorce. If this is true of your situation, then we recommend that you step back from the marriage and try to think objectively about the reality of your situation.
By stepping back and thinking objectively, you might be able to gain some perspective about what to do now and what to do in the future. To help you evaluate your situation, we have included a list of three things for you to consider that will help you know when it is the right time to file for divorce:
Number One: Communication. Step back and ask yourself, how well do me and my spouse communicate? If the answer is ‘very little’ or ‘not at all’, then chances are slim that your marriage can be salvaged.
Number Two: Trust. Step back and ask yourself, ‘can I trust my spouse?’ and ‘can my spouse trust me?’ If the answer to either of those questions is ‘no’ then chances are slim that your marriage can be salvaged.
Number Three: Marriage Counseling. Step back and ask yourself, ‘have me and my spouse tried marriage counseling?’ If yes, then step back and ask yourself, ‘how much marriage counseling have we done?’ If the answer to this second question is ‘a lot’, then chances are slim that your marriage can be salvaged.
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