How Do I Get Back With An Ex Who Requested That I Give Him/Her Space?
If my ex is requesting for more space, is there a possibility that I still win him/her back? It may sound a little contradicting but the truth is, you CAN get your ex back by allowing him/her enough space. Your ex wanted you to leave him/her alone simply because he/she wanted to have some time on his/her own. Or maybe you’re ex wanted you to change into someone he/she desires; THUS, the best thing you can give your ex is the space he/she terribly needed.
If your ex is asking for space, give him/her that. BUT that doesn’t mean that winning him/her back is already beyond what is possible! Here are the secrets on winning your ex back even if all he/she desired is to leave him/her alone:
Move On – Your ex wants space, well you want to move on; at least that’s how your ex must see things. You see, individuals dread abandonment, and they also fear the unknown. Your ex isn’t sure if someone else out there will like him/her as much as you did, or if they will find a mate who knows what he/she wants or desires, etc… so that is frightening. By showing your ex that you’ve moved on, you are also making him/her feel like he/she is being left behind and yes, nobody wants to be left alone.
Finding someone new is not easy and your ex will resort to going back to his/her comfort zone: you. Your ex will try to get back to you because it’s simpler to do than starting all over again with someone new.
Disregard Your Ex – If your ex asks for space, it’s not the same thing as advising you to leave him/her alone forever. In essence, space is leaving a window of contact open; it’s your ex’s comfort zone. Your ex will in fact love the thought that somehow, you’re just around; BUT you should never show him/her that since it will only make him/her disregard you all the more. Instead, make your ex see that you are very capable of ignoring him/her, too, by not doing any communication with him/her. When your ex recognizes that you are not really coming around, he/she will begin to question if you had finally moved on or if you are dating someone new, etc… This will give your ex the desire to do the first step in getting back with you and the more he/she thinks of you, the more that he/she will miss you.
Close The “Personal” Doors On Your Ex – When Your ex comes back, he/she will try to find out if you are still ready to have him/her back. Of course, you wanna tell him/her everything; but if you really want your ex to get really engaged with you by adding a little suspense, do not do so; so that your ex will start to run after you and desire you again. This is because you had given your ex a taste of it before, but are now taking it away; something that fueled your ex to come running after you.
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